Icons and relics should be treated as if the saint is actually present, because they do manifest the presence of the saint, especially for one who approaches with faith.
When moving forward to venerate an icon or relic, the Christian should make the sign of the cross twice, bowing from the waist after each cross. Then he or she kisses the icon (or relic), and then makes one more sign of the cross with a bow from the waist. At certain times (such as during the Exaltation of the Cross), the faithful will make a prostration instead of a simple bow from the waist, even on Sundays.
Where to kiss?
Icons are typically kissed on the hand or foot of the person portrayed, but never on the face or in any other way that is disrespectful. The person in the icon should be looked upon as our master and not our buddy because, at this point, they are glorified and we are still in our sins. We need their help; they do not need our petitions.
When entering a church, it is an excellent practice to venerate the icons that have been placed in the church for such reverence. This practice helps the worshiper to enter into a spiritual mindset. Normally, the icons on the iconostas (the panel separating the altar from the rest of the church) are not venerated. There are various reasons, but the most practical is that these are often expensive, hand-painted icons that will sustain heavy damage if frequently venerated.
If the icon is not covered in a glass case or frame, refrain from venerating it while wearing lip products (lipstick, ChapStick, etc.). The oils and chemicals in such products will deteriorate the finish on icons. Most lip products are petroleum based, which is like kryptonite on the finish of an icon. But even the oils in the natural ones can do harm.
Also, if you come in late, do not go up to venerate the icons if there is a procession happening, a Gospel or Epistle reading, or at any point when the priest is facing the people.
From the October 2026 issue of The Archangel, Orthodox Church Life.
